What red flag is quietly showing itself in this connection?

November 8. Today, the card "Three of Swords" fell out for you

The Three of Swords is the poster child for heartbreak and painful truth. This is what your red flag is woven of. It is not about some grand argument. This is that quiet, fundamental misalignment or a hidden truth. The pole of this flag is slowly piercing the heart of your connection. It looks like a core value is being compromised or some difficult conversation is being thoroughly avoided. The flag flaps in the wind to the sound of your unsynchronized heartbeats. See it before it is too late. 

The Three of Swords in love speaks of a lack of emotional integrity. They say that everything is fine, but their energy is distant and cold. You feel like the third wheel in your own relationship while something else is holding their devotion. Their job? Their friend? Past wounds? It doesn’t matter; the fracture in your foundation is growing. 

The Three of Swords as a feeling reminds you of that cold, sinking dread in the pit of your stomach. It comes right in the moment when you realize a truth you've been trying to ignore. You experience it when you lie next to someone and feel utterly alone. No, no dramatic explosion of grief can match that. It’s cold, piercing, and completely devastating. 

When it comes to a yes or no, the Three of Swords nods with sadness in its eyes. “It’s a yes. You should take this flag seriously.” The heartache you sense is not paranoia; it is a premonition. It tells you that the pain you are fearing is not just possible. It is imminent.