This is the real reason behind their behavior

May 9. Today, the reversed card "Nine of Wands" fell out for you

The Nine of Wands reversed reveals that what seems like distance or defensiveness is a quiet struggle within them. They are worn out emotionally — not because they don’t care, but because they’ve been through enough to fear being hurt again. Their guard is up, and it’s not easy for them to lower it.

The 9 of Wands reversed in a love reading shows a heart that wants to connect, yet is constantly bracing for disappointment. They may pull away or act unpredictably, not because of you, but because of their inner battles. 

The Nine of Wands reversed as feelings suggests that they care more than they show — but they feel too fragile to let it out. There’s love beneath the armor, but it’s hidden behind years of emotional scars.

9 of Wands reversed as advice encourages patience and understanding, but also healthy boundaries. Don’t take their silence personally — their behavior is a defense, not a rejection.