To make them fall for you, you must first understand the hidden danger

July 20. Today, the card "Temperance" fell out for you

The Temperance card frowns at you. You have been too much lately, not willing to master the art of balance. This is the reason they are drifting away from you. After all, you can’t make someone fall for you by force. It has to happen naturally. The more you chase and over-give, the more they slip away and refuse to accept. The solution? Become someone they will definitely fall for.

When it comes to love, the Temperance card wants to keep you from grand gestures and loud confessions. The card wants you to know this bit of truth: true love grows in the space between pursuit and patience. 

The Temperance card as a feeling makes you think of that ache you feel when they don’t seem to see the potential of your relationship. “They don’t have to,” the card whispers. “Stop forcing them!” 

Whether it is yes or no, the Temperance prefers to keep silent. It might nod slightly if you are willing to release control and let the things unfold on their own. You might see a subtle shake of the head if you keep on pushing. After all, a one-sided thing will also remain one-sided.