What he says and what he means… might be worlds apart
July 25. Today, the card "4 of Cups" fell out for you
Four of Cups
The 4 of Cups card is not the one to lie. Instead, it prefers to omit. This is what has been happening to him lately, too. He omits way too much, checking out of your conversations any time something serious comes up. It’s not that he is dishonest. He is just holding back what really matters.
The Four of Cups in love paints a picture of emotional stagnation. He claims that everything is fine, yet he is as emotionally involved as a plank of wood. His indifference should be alarming. It is the symptom of slow detachment. If you are the only one initiating conversations and asking questions, consider this - do you want your love to feel like a job interview?
As a feeling, the 4 of Cups card is that heavy quiet after a conversation that changed nothing. It’s that emptiness you feel scrolling through old texts, wondering where all the warmth had gone. It’s not heartbreak per se. It’s the ache of being stuck in an emotional limbo.
The Four of Cups as yes or no is undoubtedly “No,” but not for the reason you think. It’s not a rejection. It is more of a resignation. If he never chooses to reengage, your relationship is going to be a boring school trip, not an exciting adventure. Would you be content with it, or do you want a different travel agent?
