His actions and thoughts vary: that's what you need to know

August 14. Today, the card "Star" fell out for you

The Star is handing you a bitter pill now. It claims that his inconsistency isn’t confusion. It is clarity in disguise. The way he showers you with attention one day only to vanish the next, the way his words promise devotion but all you feel is distance - this isn’t about you. It’s about his unhealed wounds. Make no mistake - he might really want to love you. But there are hurdles in his way. Unless he deals with them, his behavior will swing between hot and cold. 

In love, the Star card sees your partner being in two places at once. He might genuinely care for you, but his trauma keeps him from showing up fully. The Star card wants you to know that his behavior is not a puzzle for you to solve. It is merely a mirror of the chaos within him. Your desire for clarity does not make you inconsiderate or impatient. It makes you human.  

As a feeling, the Star is a mixture of dread and relief. You feel it every time he texts you. You really want this time to be different, yet you still wonder how come you keep falling for this. This sensation is your soul grieving the love he could give you versus the love he actually does give. Do you like living in this perpetual state of chaos? Or are you better than this?