November 20. Today, the card "Nine of Pentacles" fell out for you
November 20. Today, the card "Nine of Pentacles" fell out for you
The Nine of Pentacles urges you to become your own greatest source of comfort and validation. This is your best chance of getting over your ex. Well, the card knows a thing or two about self-sufficient luxury and refined independence, so why not follow its advice, right? Yes, there is no need for you to find a replacement or a rebound. You’ll get over them in no time if you cultivate a life so rich, so beautiful, and so personally fulfilling that the absence of your ex will go unnoticed.
The Nine of Pentacles in love knows which path to healing you should take - it’s the one illuminated with radical self-love. Stop scrolling through your old photos or stalking them on social media. Start investing this time into yourself. Learn a skill, find a hobby, revamp your wardrobe. You’ll get over your ex in no time when you finally realize that the most luxurious relationship you can have is the one you build with yourself. Make sure it is full of trust, respect, and appreciation of your own company.
The Nine of Pentacles as a feeling is that serene and quiet pride. It is not disturbed by the thoughts of them. Your mind is whole. Your heart is content. You don’t need anyone else to complete you. Savor this feeling of graceful independence. Enjoy your solitude. After all, you are and have always been enough.
When it comes to a yes or no, the Nine of Pentacles gives you a very confident “Yes. You’ll get over them in no time.” But there is more good news to come. Once you move on, you are going to emerge from this experience more refined and self-assured than before. So the end of this relationship was never a loss. It was purging.
