If single: what red flag should you not ignore when meeting someone new?

September 6. Today, the card "Queen of Wands" fell out for you

The Queen of Wands won’t tolerate anyone who dares to dim her light. This is her message to you - the red flag you must never overlook is someone trying to mock your ambitions and asking you to soften your fire. Anyone who dares to question your magnetic confidence and passion is not a lover - they are a vampire. The Queen doesn’t negotiate her worth, and neither should you. 

The Queen of Wands in love is here to expose the subtle ways your SO is trying to diminish you. Those might come in the form of backhanded compliments about your ambitions, vocal discomfort with your social confidence, or attempts to isolate you from whoever reflects your power. Sooner than you think, this person will not just drain you of your power but attempt to control it. 

The Queen of Wands as a feeling is that immediate cringe when someone responds to your passion with condescension or indifference. It’s that surge of embarrassment when you share your dream, only to be met with a blank stare. This is not insecurity. This is your spirit recognizing a threat to your sovereignty. 

When it comes to yes or no, the Queen of Wands utters a thunderous “No!” Do not ignore this red flag. Walk away the moment you feel yourself shrinking to fit someone’s limited vision. The right person will never ask you to be a smaller version of yourself.