Is he afraid to be with you or just doesn't want to?

August 19. Today, the card "Empress" fell out for you

The Empress has little time for nonsense. Here is the raw truth from her lips: if a man wants to be with you, nothing will stop him from pursuing you. The card gets right to the heart of the problem - his hesitation isn’t about fear. It’s about the degree of his desire for you. When a man’s longing runs deep, he’ll move mountains for you. Anything less shows a heartbreaking lack of devotion.  

In love, the Empress has no option but to reveal this uncomfortable reality - if his fear of commitment only applies to you, then he is not afraid. He is just unconvinced. True fear usually stems from overwhelming desire, not lazy hesitation. The Empress urges you to watch his speech. Does he talk about the future with you in certainties or hypotheticals? Does he introduce you to his inner circle, or are you being kept compartmentalized? You’ll find your answer in his actions.  

The Empress card as a feeling is the divine feminine rage that you feel when you realize that you have been watering dead soil. His failure to notice and appreciate your worth isn’t rejection. It is a redirection. The heartbreak that you feel is in fact your soul rejecting the crumbs that you mistook for a feast.  

When it comes to yes or no, the Empress offers no answer but bluntly states this: “If you are asking, then you already know,” Men who want you **do** something, despite the fear. Those who don’t - well, they use this fear as an excuse.