November 21. Today, the card "Three of Pentacles" fell out for you
Today, the card "Three of Pentacles" fell out for you
The Three of Pentacles speaks of collaboration and earning respect through your unique skills. The card suggests that the easiest way for you to overcome codependency is through learning to collaborate as a whole, self-valuable individual. You must refrain from merging with another person - a thing you normally do. Instead, focus your attention on honing your unique craft and then offering it confidently to the world. This will help you stand on your own merit within a team.
When it comes to love, the Three of Pentacles suggests that you should stop seeking your worth through your partner's eyes. Start contributing your specific strengths to your relationship and allow your partner the space to contribute theirs. Overcome codependence by remembering you are a skilled, capable individual. It’s that you choose to collaborate, as opposed to being dependent and merging to survive.
The Three of Pentacles in career sees this codependency habit manifesting through needing constant validation from colleagues or fearing to work autonomously. The card encourages you to become a master of your specific role. Get busy deepening your expertise so that you know your value is intrinsic to your skills, not external to the approval of others. This is how you foster confidence - by building it on your competence.
As a feeling, the Three of Pentacles is that quiet pride of looking at a shared project and knowing full well which parts are your own brilliant contribution. You can feel that you are respected and valued in your team. However, you manage to keep your individual identity intact. This is this grounded confidence and mutual respect. Not a trace of anxious clinginess or codependence in sight.
