Your life can be whatever YOU want it to be. But you have to face your fear

December 21. Today, the reversed card "Tower" fell out for you

The reversed Tower speaks of a crisis that has been internalized. It appears that some crucial foundation is cracked, but you are quite masterful at propping up the walls out of fear of the collapse. The card frowns at you. “You know that you are the architect of your own life, right?” it asks. “So why are you choosing the familiar prison of a shaky structure over the liberating but terrifying freefall of destroying it to build something true?” Why indeed. 

The upside-down Tower in love suggests that you are staying in a relationship or a pattern that has emotionally already ended. Why? Because you fear the loneliness, confrontation, or uncertainty of life without it. You cling to this half-collapsed Tower to avoid the moment of truth. However, to have the love you truly want, you must face the fear of being alone, of causing pain, or of starting over. That is the rule. 

As a feeling, the reversed Tower reminds you of that constant, low-grade anxiety of living in a building you know could fall at any moment. You are exhausted, drowning in tension, yet smiling and carrying on. In fact, you feel trapped, not free. You know that you are living a lie. But you are too scared to tell the truth. 

The reversed Tower wants to give you this piece of advice - realize that your fear of the collapse is far worse than the collapse itself. You already live in a perpetual state of internal earthquake. Make it external. So stop resisting. Name your fear aloud. Then, make one deliberate choice that aligns with your truth. The life you want begins the moment you stop being afraid of the old one collapsing.